Addicted

I know I'm good at sex. It is probably the one things in the world I know I am good at. I've received rave reviews. The problem? Addiction. Not by me - although I have a healthy appetite - but by those I seek to please. They become insatiable. I become a drug. And then I have to cut them off. So where is my middle ground? I can't be someone's addiction but I also need love and physicality. Is there a 10 step program for me?